*Groans*
Sore throat.
In the middle of yester-night,it was so painful suddenly that I have to jump up and gulp water down the throat.

Look at things this way,indeed we (women) hate to be deceive but sometimes it works too.
Maybe I wont even call it as deceive,but more of being "tactful".
Either way you choose to look at it,it's true.
Indeed I was kinda disappointed over last night coversation.
But I knew you were tired as well.Just that I kinda expect to hear more.When I didnt,I'll just hung the phone upon the first 'good bye'.

I knew you may have read this somewhere before,but just read again.

bad example============
gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??
guy: yeah, tired from work...
gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and sleep lah
guy: ok, you have an early nite too..
guy hangs up the phone.
5 min later, phone ringsawaken by the phone rings, g
uy: hello?
gal: .............
guy: who's this?
gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it?
guy (confused): huh? what?
gal: .............
guy: why? what happened?
gal: you find me very bothersome is it?
guy: bothersome? why you said this??
gal: ..............guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out?
gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to sleep...
guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to sleep..
.gal: you already said want to sleep already, what else u want me to say?
guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what for tell me to go sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end?
gal: since when i'm unhappy?
guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will that do?
gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not because afraid that i will be unhappy...
In the end, guy spend another HR comforting gal, actual sleep time is 11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep.what worse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day.


good example============
gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?
guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired from work. but you have not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening.
gal: (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go and sleep then(still sounding out) never fall into the trap and hang up the phone
guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i give u a call tomorrow morning. let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the reason, and offer make up measure)
gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.
gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than this
guy: so what time you are going to sleep?
gal: not sure, probably a bit later.
guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will be heart pain one hor...
gal (feeling loved): ok lah...guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must remember to say this impt words, else all effort wasted)
gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao)
guy: ehmm...gal hang up the phonein the end, 11.10pm
. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning call from gal the next day...


conclusion 1:female wants feeling and care. most of the time, female's logic cannotbe figure out with a reasoning mind.conclusion

2:say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you morethan hr of precious timeconclusion

3:when encounter the above situation, must always let the gal hang upthe phone first. else it will be disastrous...

But dont drop the same lines at me,you know I am more difficult and less girlish than that.

It is that tired,nothing to talk,sian,wanna hang up tone that got me baffled,a lil sian.


*cough cough cough*

-_-"